Goodbye July

Wow, just in a blink of an eye and it is already the end of July. Once more it is August and the days are creeping slowly to the year 2009. I have been trying to keep myself busy all the time with work and gaining experience at the same time.

So i did not blog that much in this month. This should be my second last post for the month as i am sure i will post one on the 31st of July.

I graduated last Saturday, 26th of July. The ceremony was held in Eastwood Valley. Finally i am a Diploma in Commerce graduate! Hooray for me! I did not take any pictures as i was so ashamed to take out my crappy Sony Ericsson phone to take pictures. Just managed to get one from a friend of mine.

Me & Kevin

Are you Feeling What you Should be Feeling?

It has been a weird week for me last week. Somehow things happened just like that and i do not even know what happened. Sometimes i think to myself, as a guy why should i be so sensitive. It is not like everyone notices what you do for them, it is just a matter of what they need at that time.

Being sensitive, i have thought this point over and over again countless times. But i have yet to find a definite answer to my question. What choices should i make? What should i do? The same goes to what i should feel?

It is not just about me, but i think that all of you out there have had this dilemma before. What should you feel? Or are you feeling what you should be feeling? Or is everything is just a fairy tale that will be over in a blink of an eye.

It has been a while since i have had this kind of dilemma and honestly i do not know myself what i should do, what i should be feeling, or should i be feeling what i am feeling now. Yes i have written a few posts regarding this feeling stuff and how to cope with them roughly. But the truth is, when it comes to myself, i do not know how to handle it. No, do not tell me that you all out there do not have the same problem or difficulty. Truth is when you look at it closely, everybody can give advice and teach you what to do. But not everyone can cope with it when it comes to them.

Everyone of us has hopes for everything that is good but it does not always turn out to be what we want. Same goes to what you do not want. When you don't want it, it comes to you. We do not actually have control over ourselves. What i believe is there are a few paths paved out for us to choose, the choice is us to make but what happens on those different paths are already pre-determined. That is what we call destiny.

Enough of my rantings. Hope my blog readers out there don't get bored of this. Maybe there is more to come. But all in all, i hope i do not regret the decisions that i make. Same goes to you all out there! Think carefully before you decide in something!

新不了情

My first ever post in Chinese. Somehow I got hooked to this song. For some reason, it has that special meaning. I am sorry i could not provide a translation in English but for those who know Chinese, I expect you all to know the meaning behind this sentimental song. Thanks to that certain "someone" for letting me know the existence of this song.

新不了情

心若倦了泪也干了
这份深情难舍难了
曾经拥有天荒地老
已不见你暮暮与朝朝
这一份情永远难了
愿来生还能再度拥抱
爱一个人如何厮守到老
怎样面对一切我不知道
回忆过去痛苦的相思忘不了
为何你还来拨动我心跳
爱你怎么能了今夜的你应该明了
缘难了情难了
心若倦了泪也干了
这份深情难舍难了
曾经拥有天荒地老
已不见你暮暮与朝朝
这一份情永远难了
愿来生还能再度拥抱
爱一个人如何厮守到老
怎样面对一切我不知道
回忆过去痛苦的相思忘不了
为何你还来拨动我心跳
爱你怎么能了今夜的你应该明了
缘难了情难了
回忆过去痛苦的相思忘不了
为何你还来拨动我心跳
爱你怎么能了今夜的你应该明了
缘难了情难了

A Guy in Tight Jeans?

What would you think if a guy wore tight jeans? My opinion? First glance and impression would be that he is gay. But what do you think?

Do you know that blue jeans are the origin and DNA of a man's casual wardrobe. It is a million of random possibility of lifestyles organized into one coherent system or fashion. But how do you get the right ones to fit your appearance?

How Do You Get A Pair of Jeans that Molds to Your Body?
Jeans, in my opinion looks better on a man when they are still stiff and dark as they were when they came home from the store. These are blue jeans that i am talking about. It gets better when the jeans have been softened and sculpted, also battered against a man's body by life itself.

If you are looking to buy one, buy a single pair that starts out looking like something Potsie wore on Happy Days. Over time, they will mature into your favourite pair of jeans or even pants.

How to Tell if Your Pair is Too Baggy or Tight?
Some people will call this as an anatomy test cause basically, to know if the pair is too baggy or too tight depends totally on the outlook after you wear the pair of jeans. This test is only for men! (hehehe..)

If you can see any of your frontal anatomy through your pants, then they are too tight. If people see any of your gluteal anatomy above your jeans, then they are too loose. You can leave the extra baggy jeans for rappers or skate punks. Also remember, no one wants to see a man in tight jeans!

How Do You Make Jeans Go With Everything?
Okay, now that you know how to get a pair that suits you, how do you tell if the pair is too baggy or too tight, you have got to know how to sync the pair with the rest of your wardrobe to make it look nice and of course handsome!

Blue jeans, by right ought to be casual. It also evolved itself into the ultimate in terms of flexibility. If used with wit, they can work with many different situations. For me, its best to wear lighter-weighted denim as they match well with all colours and look great paired with a woven shirt and a linen or navy blazer.

Which Jacket Do You Wear With Your Jeans?
For jackets, i would not recommend for a full-denim outfit as it is a little too country for most girls. Instead, you can add a buttery suede or leather jacket. Trust me, you'll love it, and so will the ladies.

Are You Running From Love? - Part 4 (Finale)

Stop Distancing to Stop Running From Love
A good day to you all readers. Once again, i hope you all have enjoyed my posts regarding this topic so far. This will be the last segment. I hope that this segment will be as enjoyable to you all as it has been for me writing it.

First and foremost, you need to acknowledge the kinds of distancing patters that you have. Yes that is correct. Not your partner, not anyone else's partner but YOU. I am sure that we all have a distancing pattern within ourselves. After you have acknowledged your own distancing pattern, move into new ways of exploring the roots.

If people have had a lot of failures in trying to get closer, whether it is within a relationship or getting into a relationship, it is really a mistake for them to keep trying the same old thing. Take the kind of radical approach? Try being more vulnerable for instance?

In my opinion, once you've found your own distancing patterns, it will enable you to identify the flaws and mistakes that you normally make in a relationship. Everyone has that pattern and it will happen and appear in every single relationship if you don't make an effort to change. Thus, making your relationships the same old thing again and again. You'll face the same problems in every single relationship or even the same old partner's habits in every single relationship. So I leave it to you to decide the importance of this as the best I can do is share it with you all. As always, comments are welcomed and feel free to contact me if you have anything in mind regarding the articles.