Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Are You Running From Love? - Part 4 (Finale)

Stop Distancing to Stop Running From Love
A good day to you all readers. Once again, i hope you all have enjoyed my posts regarding this topic so far. This will be the last segment. I hope that this segment will be as enjoyable to you all as it has been for me writing it.

First and foremost, you need to acknowledge the kinds of distancing patters that you have. Yes that is correct. Not your partner, not anyone else's partner but YOU. I am sure that we all have a distancing pattern within ourselves. After you have acknowledged your own distancing pattern, move into new ways of exploring the roots.

If people have had a lot of failures in trying to get closer, whether it is within a relationship or getting into a relationship, it is really a mistake for them to keep trying the same old thing. Take the kind of radical approach? Try being more vulnerable for instance?

In my opinion, once you've found your own distancing patterns, it will enable you to identify the flaws and mistakes that you normally make in a relationship. Everyone has that pattern and it will happen and appear in every single relationship if you don't make an effort to change. Thus, making your relationships the same old thing again and again. You'll face the same problems in every single relationship or even the same old partner's habits in every single relationship. So I leave it to you to decide the importance of this as the best I can do is share it with you all. As always, comments are welcomed and feel free to contact me if you have anything in mind regarding the articles.

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