Wednesday, June 24, 2009

The Sense of Insecurity


The sense that makes everyone feel insecure and not safe. What does it really do and how does it really affect us humans? I am still yet to find out as I have only got this feeling recently. For some reason it is just a bit too strong for me to handle and I find myself at a dead end not knowing what to do, how to react and how to proceed on.

I hate this feeling. I feel like I am lost in the middle of nowhere wearing nothing. The feeling of naked-ness is really not something one would like to feel everyday. So what is it that makes us feel insecure? In my opinion, almost everything that is a need in our lives can make us feel insecure. Don't understand? Here's an example. Humans need money to survive and go through their everyday lives. Take out the money from their lives, make them have no money, most people would feel very insecure without some or a bit of money on them. Isn't that true?

So what is it that is making me feel so insecure? Money? Love? Family? Friends? I would say, almost everything is making me feel insecure but then again, nobody would actually notice as I always try my best to conceal it. So, here's another question. What would you do if you feel insecure but at the same time you have to provide the sense of security to your partner?

For me, to provide my partner with the sense of security that he/she seeks is more of like something compulsory. Being in a relationship, the first and foremost thing that I would emphasize in is trust. Without trust, there would be no relationship... or i would say that the relationship would not last that long. To answer the question above, I would say, even if I feel insecure, I have the obligation to make my partner/the other half of me to feel secure. I don't know about you guys out there, but this is what I think. It is true that some of you might feel differently, but this is my point of view. *wink* No need to get all so worked up. Feel free to drop some comments on your point of views and we could discuss and maybe you could contribute some new ideas to my next blog post. Till then, thank you for reading and enjoy.

2 comments:

-pEi- said...

It is always too broad to define how will a person get security and in terms of what sense.

Girls always hard to please don't you think so? That is why nthey need lots of things no matter in material sense or not.

When you give her this or get that, she will never satisfied or feel secured. Just like she said she always need you to be around. When you are around and she will said she still feel unsecured. She said she need something that is more material.

SO security really do depends on that person needs in life.

Saf said...

yea i guess so.